Love is the embroidery of words and actions. Relying on fate alone is a defeatist approach as you are expected to put your heart into what is desired in life. Cupid is not an Olympic archer and certainly his arrows had to be directed by your determination. A consistent undertaking of this belief would ultimately reach its holiest form, and that is marriage.
“Adam and Eve sitting under a tree…K.I.S.S.I.N.G…first comes love then come marriage…then a (pause it)…” It was a rhyme sung to tease little kids who were flirting with a possible romance. An encryption which would prove significant if studied closely as every action is a catalyst to a greater conclusion. Same goes for the often ignored practice of proposing!
If one recalls the absolute disaster of Chris O’Donnell in the movie “The Bachelor”, his initial proposal was merely a result from reaching a deadlock in his relationship. Whereas in his abrupt second proposal came insincerely for the main reason of fulfilling the terms of inheriting a fortune from a will left by his grandfather. Even Renée Zellweger learnt of his naked fear of commitment. It was only through a climatic romantic display of Hollywood proportion that his proposal was executed with his guard down and most importantly a confession of his love.
This dream like scenario is as important as the first glance exchange between you and your soul mate. The proposal is a final act in the chapter of dating and it need not be done with over the top setting, as saving the money for the actual wedding itself would thrill her more. Although a romantic gesture which shows effort increases a certain answer of “Yes I Will Marry You” and ends up being a story that would be shared among her friends and yours for the rest of your married life whereby making you a legend.
The key to a good proposal is a timely fashioned unconventional act which would ridicule you in a charming way. We refer to it as the ‘guerilla style’ proposal and the 3 variations showcased on the videos serve as a template that should be improvised. Difference between these styles lies on the interplay of emotion.
Romantic dinner dates are clichés for proposal although its abstraction is valuable to adapt the ‘Disney Style’ proposal. First tip is to bring her out to a normal date where the selection for its location should be a public place with fond memories. Next is to throw an act of epic proportion from your normal standards (showing a tattoo of her name is not one of it) that would engage the public as your cheerleaders. The backdrop of a deafening chant will cast off any doubt a girl has about you. Idea behind this proposal is to make her fall in love with you again.
Worry not if you are a shy person who wants to adopt the ‘guerilla style’ as you can still impress her with a ‘Video Style’ proposal. Taking out unwarranted attention from the equation creates a safe haven for you. This benefits you in clarity of thoughts to express yourself romantically without worrying on making a fool out of yourself. Idea behind this method is to promote your qualities and this will project an idea of how her future would be like with you.
Both ‘guerilla style’ share a common trait of aiming the spotlight on you. If you feel that a more casual yet romantic way suits you, then opt for the ‘Airport Style’ proposal. In this video as you can see the built up of emotion resulted from series of unexplained events which kept her guessing the reason behind it. Making her lost in her thoughts then followed by the climatic kneeling down in front of her with a beautiful ring in hand completes her puzzle to life and that is you.
These 3 ‘guerilla styles’ serve as templates where its idea behind should be toyed around for you to create your own style. Love is interplay of emotion whereby mastering it is an art of seizing moments.
